Wednesday, 4 December 2013

7 Most Popular Ways to Spend Valentine's Day

1. Pop the question
If you've been thinking about asking her to marry you, there's no time like Valentine’s Day for a romantic proposal. The day is meant for lovers, after all, and getting down on one knee with a ring is one of the best ways you can profess your love for her.

2. Dress up
Pull out all the stops and dress up in your finest. No matter what your plans are -- whether you’ve got reservations at a posh restaurant or you’re eating a meal together at home -- dressing up and good grooming will make the occasion feel extra special. Most women love having the chance to get all dolled up, and you can both enjoy looking your best while spending time together.

3. Get awayIf you've got the time, money and freedom, stretch your Valentine’s Day into a Valentine’s weekend away at a romantic resort or bed-and-breakfast. This way you can combine the relaxation of a mini-vacation with time spent alone together getting amorous.

4. Have love in publicIt’ll be a Valentine’s Day to remember if the two of you get naughty in a public place.

5. Be homebodiesSometimes the best Valentine’s Day gift you can give is the gift of uninterrupted time together. You don’t need to leave the house to make Valentine’s Day special. Think of how great it could be to spend the entire day in bed together. Turn off your phones, don’t answer the door and enjoy each other.

6. Drive
Go For a Romantic drive.

7. Make a path of rose petalsAnticipation is half the fun of a romantic surprise. Start the excitement when she walks in the door by leaving a trail of rose petals leading to the bedroom, where she’ll find Valentine’s Day gifts. Feel free to go all out with the heart-shaped box of chocolates, red-and-white teddy bears and candy hearts. She’ll love the corny romance of it all.

8. Go for a massageMassage is a must-do activity for Valentine’s Day. You can either treat her to a full-body, sensual massage with scented (and even edible) oils or lotions, or give yourself a little pampering and book a couple’s massage at a spa. A relaxing massage is just the thing to get both of you in the mood for Valentine’s Day.

9. Go For A Trip
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10. Reenact your first dateThere’s a good chance that the beginning of your relationship was the time when you made the most effort to show her your romantic side, so why not turn back the clock and remind her how charming you were when you were wooing her?Women love it when men remember details from when they were still getting to know each other. Think back to your first date, and take her to the same place, eat the same food and do the same things that first sparked your romance.

Thursday, 26 September 2013


Friendship is an important part of life and having strong relationships with people will help keep you healthy and happy. Emily Dickinson is quoted as saying "My friends are my estate." Value your friendships and treat your friends as you would like to be treated and you will be rewarded in having a trustworthy friendship.

As anyone in the spiritual work field will tell you– whatever sermon we’re about to preach will show up in our own personal battles.  Whatever lessons we’re going to be called to teach will have to also continue being learned.  Whatever healing we’re going to extend will have to first be received.

5 Stages of Friendship.


Curiosity. This is where every friendship begins.  There has to be something that attracts you, gives you a sense of willingness and increases your desire to have more. It doesn’t have to be conscious or obvious to us, but at this stage we have to have reason to lean in, even a little, if the stranger we’re meeting is going to have a chance of becoming a friend.

Exploratory. Every potential friendship requires time together.  For some of us, that time happens automatically (at a play group, a choir rehearsal, yoga class or work), but for many of us, we’ll have to initiate it and pursue it.  For it doesn’t matter how much attraction you may feel in that first stage– if you don’t show up for time together– a friendship it will never become.

Familiarity. This is the stage we often want as stage one.     We frequently want to experience this comfort level with someone upon first meeting them, forgetting that it takes time to build.  In my experience, I find that it takes most women 6-8 times with someone before they reach this stage.  Of course that depends on what you’re doing during that time and how you’re sharing, but at some point you reach this familiarity.  A trust that you can assume she wants to talk with you when you call.  An ease where you’re okay just hanging out spontaneously together without it taking two weeks to schedule.  A sense that you are beginning to be able to predict how they will respond to different life events.

Vulnerability. This stage is tricky since there is a ditch on either side: rushing to it too quickly or avoiding it all together.  Some women rush to this stage early on because they feel closer once they have shared their pain.  But healthy friendships need the commitment to grow in conjunction with the intimacy. We should not be emotionally vomiting on someone in order to feel closer.  It should not be our expectation that friends who are in the first couple of stages need to prove themselves and be there for us in extreme ways.
On the other hand, at some point of consistent time together, if you’re not willing to share beyond your PR image, laugh at yourself and express insecurities– the friendship will stall or disintegrate.  This is where we earn the right to “cry on each others shoulder.”   This is where we are bonding in deeper ways, increasing our commitment to each other.

Frientimacy This last stage is for those who are your BFFs.  And notice that I made that plural.     Best doesn't speak to quantity as much as quality. It’s like when a magazine says “Best moments of last year” and lists ten.  There is enough research out there to suggest we need between 3-7 people in this category. Don’t limit yourself.  On the other hand, not everyone you interact with needs to move into this last stage.
This Friendship Intimacy stage is my category for the people I trust implicitly.  We trust each others boundaries, have proven to show up as emotionally healthy people for each other and are willing to go out of our way for their benefit.  We love them.  This stage takes time.  Lots of it. For most of us, while you may see the potential and some of the benefits of it 6-12 months into the relationship, it may take even longer than that to really build the required trust and intimacy.

While few of our relationships will ever have clear lines between these stages, does it help to visually see that friendship is indeed a progression?  Is it valuable to differentiate between seeing the potential of a BF and putting in the time and vulnerability required to foster it?  In general, does this align with your experience? And, if this were true, how could you see it helping you as you start new friendships?

Tuesday, 23 April 2013

Having a Best Friend to share your feelings


We all have friends but some friends are more special than others.  There is a mutual affection between them.  You can trust on them. You can share your secrets with them.  You fight with them; you tease them, play together, shop together, but never imagine your life without them.  But giving that title to someone else is as much about commitment and respect as a romantic relationship is. It also involves compromise, trust.  A best friend is not only someone you have a good time with; it is also someone you believe you can trust your life with. A best friend is the first person you call when the most amazing things happen in your life, and when the most horrific incidents happen. Finding that trustworthy friend may be difficult but not impossible.

It’s difficult to find people you can trust upon because you cannot trust anyone blindly, but give yourself a chance at least.  A best friend is almost like a family member, a best friend gives the opinion you usually care most about. A best friend is the one who tells you the things you absolutely need to hear regardless of whether you want to hear it or not. Sometimes love starts with friendship. We first do friendship, and then continue by becoming best friends, slowly and gradually if we start understanding each other, we decide to spend the whole life with them. In short, friendship is the foundation of love.

You can be completely you with your best friend. They become soul of you friendship. Without them there is no meaning of friendship. Just as a life partner is important for our life, best friend is also important for our life, before marriage and after marriage too.
You have jokes with them and a whole bunch of little things that are only significant to the two of you. You tell them anything and everything, and you think alike. This person understands you best, and gets you.  Best friend is the person who knows you're completely insane, but loves you anyways.
I was searching for website for finding new friends and came through findfriendz. It’s an awesome site for finding and making new friends you can trust upon. 

Tuesday, 29 January 2013

Relationship Beginnings Advice

Friendship advice is great, because its a relationship where you know each other and your relation move to next step, but once you've been friendship for a while, you need relationship beginnings advice. If your goal is to have a long term relationship with someone, or maybe get married sometime, then managing a new relationship is very important.

Balancing Act

Relationships beginnings advice will often seem contradictory.
A new relationship requires delicate balancing. If you move too quickly, or too slow, you could end up ruining a good relationship or even your friendship will be end. Keep this in mind as you read advice and as you progress in your relationship.

When Does a Relationship Begin?


Before a relationship begins, it has to officially start, but what causes a relationship to start? Some couples will continue dating for a while and then one day they both realize they are in a relationship. Other couples slowly try and determine what the other person is thinking, never really discussing the status of their relationship.

The best tactic is to look for signs that you have progressed from friendship into a relationship, and then communicate with your partner so that the two of you know what the other person is thinking. Some signs to look for include:

* Once both friends know or understand that you are in a relationship, then you've officially * * Moved beyond just friendship.
* Spending lots of time together
* No longer going on dates with someone else
* Not having to ask if he or she is available on Friday or Saturday night for a date
* Wanting your friends to meet your date

Conclusion:

Every relationship is different Friendship is too. Use relationship advice to guide you, but don't be bound by it either. Only the two of know what you are feeling and experiencing. Use that knowledge to ultimately guide your relationship.


Friday, 4 January 2013

Add New Relationship in your Life New Year Resolution Make New Friends



Friendship is about mutual respect, affection, help, and providing comfort in times of crises. The best phrase to describe a true friend is very simple, someone you can commit a great deal of trust and will never leave you at all times. Friendship is a mutually supportive relationship between two or more people. 
Friends make your life interesting and wonderful. In choosing friends we have to be cautious because nowadays, people tend to be good to you only when they knew that they can dig something out from you. As a human being, we long to have the same affection we share with others, nevertheless, we can’t just count on someone you have known for a short time. Of course friends argue and have fights, that happens to everyone. That is how friendship is tested during these times of arguments and fights. . It should pass the extreme test of life before you can tell whether it is real or fictitious.


Oftentimes, it’s difficult to confide with anyone else even the one whom you thought your dearest friend can turn out as your great enemy and stab you from behind. It happens, yes and it feels very disappointing yet inevitable. Give a million chance to your enemy to be your friend but do not give a single chance to your friend to be your enemy. If you’re fortunate you can find a true friend for those circumstances you did n’t expect. Sometimes the one who’s being despised often at the end will be the one who will defend you and carry you at your heaviest times. In return, we must make them feel sufficiently well and be there for them as they did for us.

However, choose your friends wisely. One way friendships never work so take the time to ponder who you should let into your social circle. Friends are like shadows that will always be with you. If you are feeling sad or lonely, they would try to make you feel happy with their company. Beyond a doubt, we must know and remember that true friends can and will improve our lives. A friend is usually someone you are not related to by either birth, marriage or from any legal ties that bind you.
If you are thinking of making new friends, just visit the site
 findfriendz It’s an awesome site of making new cool friends. Friend is to find new friends or partners, for fun, friendship and long term relationships. Meeting and socializing with people on find friend is both fun and safe.